Why is it that in a relationship there are always issues that we just don’t want to face head on. We just let it passed until it bites us again in the future…
Some questions not answered. Some issues not resolve. Compromise is the answer.
Talk the issues out. Resolve them.
Is it hard to trust your love one? If he is going out with his new found friends or old buddies, will you let him go alone? Or because you’re his BF you should go both. Or just don’t allow him to go…
Trust? Jealousy? What’s the reason?
Isn’t it healthy for a relationship that both of you should have your separate set of friends. He has his friends and you have yours. He could go out with his friends and you could with yours. Let’s be frank with each other, there are things that you are doing with your friends and things that you do with your “hubby”. It’s normal for a person to do things that he usually does with his friends and not worrying if his BF will allow him or get mad. In the first place, why does he need permission? He has been doing that even before his BF came…
Why get jealous with his friends just because you don’t know them? Does this mean that he needs to acquaint you with all his friends for you to trust him?
The point is, BF got angry and mad because he wanted to go out with his new found friends. Does the BF reaction’s normal? Or he’s reaction / jealousy (if we may call it) out of place? Or because you are committed to him you don’t get to do things like this anymore?
When will the paranoia stop? Won’t your BF feel claustrophobic? That he is just bound to do things with you or when you agreed on it.
If you stop going out or seeing your set of friends that you’re BF is not acquainted to, it’s your choice. Don’t blame. It’s what you called “your sacrifice” Why do you need to sacrifice? Did your BF ask for this sacrifice? If your way of loving is “your world revolve around your BF”, that’s you. But don’t be mad because he wanted to do things without you. He just wanted to bond and have fun with his friends. That’s normal, right?
Fun and bonding with friends is different from the passion and joy you have when you’re with your “hubby”
He loves and cares for you very much. He wanted things to work out. He wanted to resolve this… But please be open minded and understanding just like what you wanted him to be.
Help me guys. What’s do I need to do?